Why?' says the boy.' Why? Because staying alive is more important than anything else.'' Why is staying alive more important than anything?' He is about to answer, about to produce the correct, patient, educative words, when something wells up inside him. Anger? No. Irritation? No: more than that. Despair? Perhaps: despair in one of its minor forms. Why? Because he would like to believe he is guiding the child through the maze of the moral life when, correctly, patiently, he answers his unceasing 'Why' questions. But where is there any evidence that the child absorbs his guidance or even hears what he says? He stops where he is on the busy sidewalk. Inés and the boy stop too, and stare at him in puzzlement. 'Think of it in this way, ' he says. 'We are tramping through the desert, you and Inés and I. You tell me you are thirsty and I offer you a glass of water. Instead of drinking the water you pour it out in the sand. You say you thirst for answers: 'Why this? Why that?' I, because I am patient, because I love you, offer you an answer each time, which you pour away in the sand. Today, at last, I am tired of offering you water. 'Why is staying alive important?' If life does not seem important to you, so be it.' Inés raises a hand to her mouth in dismay. As for the boy, his face sets in a frown. 'You say you love me but you don't love me, ' he says. 'You just pretend. J.M. Coetzee
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The importance of living is the importance of staying alive.I love you all my life, but it seems that you don't love me. I think that you just pretend to love me. I am tired to offer you water. I am tired to offer you love.

I am tired to offer you the truth about myself and who I am. It seems that living is important for me, but it seems that you do not find the importance of living the same as me.

Source: The Childhood Of Jesus

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